Hello Friend,
No matter how difficult it might appear, forgiveness is possible. But it won’t happen unless you are really motivated to forgive.
1. Your heart has to be open to the possibility.
2. You then have to act on that motivation and make something happen…be different about the issue or person. A decision needs to be made to activate the desire to forgive.
3. Humility is needed to keep the spirit of forgiveness alive. From day to day, even moment to moment we get tempted away from a place of love and forgiveness…by others, by our own feelings and frustrations…so we have to remain humble and recognize that the decision and motivation to forgive in the first place was our only real option. This takes work.
Without any one of these three ingredients, true forgiveness will not happen. But without forgiveness, we are a mere shell of our true loving self.
Wishing you an abundance of peace and love,
~♥~