10 Reasons We Don’t Do What We KNOW To Do

Hello My Friend! This question has been with me for decades. I’m fascinated by how human beings operate with their knowledge. We know a thing and we know it’s the best thing to do – will bring us maximum happiness, peace, success, health, etc, etc… But yet we fail to take action. WHY?? I’ve asked this […]

BEing in The Land of Joy (& NOT Just Doing Stuff)

  Hello My Friend, I want to share this post ( on Facebook ) about the joy of getting things done: “I just did something I’ve been putting off for God knows how long and I CANNOT express the joy of action…especially when I know it’s coming from a place of BEing and not just doing for […]

21 Ways to Get UNSTUCK – and 3 Main Reasons We Get Stuck

Hello My Friend, It’s a common human experience, much as us high achievers might wish to deny it: Some days are much rougher than most as far as remaining optimistic, productive and at peace. The human condition is such that we are in constant flux with incoming stimuli and internal emotional, physical, mental, psychological and […]

5 Steps and 5 Questions to end the vicious cycle of self-SABOTAGE

Hello Friend, For so long I struggled with this. I struggled and triumphed back-n-forth for years. It was the very up and down of that slippery cycle that was the source of great anxiety; so much so that being upset about being upset was the norm for me. Why this was, is not the subject of […]

Stop talking and take action TODAY – 3 steps to get you started

Hello Dear One, This has become my battle cry – Take Action NOW!  I’ve long felt that the self-help industry is too much about writing and reading great-to-good to redundant  books and not enough about people feeling their empowerment and TAKING ACTION. We need to read less about taking action and simply take action…even if […]

How to stop procrastination – the 7 words to retire

Hello My Friend, Life lessons are everywhere and in everything. They’re in joyful experiences as well as – and perhaps even more so, in painful ones. They’re in mistakes and triumphs; in games and in gardens. Is it a stretch to say that life lessons are to us what water is to fish? That sounds […]

Future Me – What About You?

Hello Dear Friend, This picture warmed my heart, touched my soul and made me grin. I got a clear picture of me in my golden years. So now I have to make sure to make it happen!  I want to be a senior who creates art and beauty. And so it will be! How do […]

The Wisdom of Mistakes – 8 Powerful Pics

Hello Dear Friend, We just don’t seem to get this “humanity” thing… we MAKE MISTAKES! Relationships ending, families torn apart, prisons doing zero reforming, communities and nations living in the past and even at the individual level…folks just not forgiving themselves (or others) for past mistakes. So very sad. First of all, let’s see mistakes […]

Enough Talk – 3 Steps to ACTION Today!

Hello Dear One, This has become my battle cry – Take Action NOW! I’ve long felt that the self-help industry is too much about writing and reading great-to-good to redundant  books and not enough about people feeling their empowerment and TAKING ACTION. We need to read less about taking action and simply take action…even if […]

The #1 Reason WHY People CHANGE.

Hello My Friend! What do you think the #1 reason is – why people change? Nothing to do  (kinda strong, I know!) with planning change, thinking about change, visioning and imagining change, being lectured about change or reading about change! Let’s stop the delusions about all this other stuff. Yes, they help to prepare people […]